Life As A Single Lady.

Single ladies in the house?

Who says you gonna stay single forever just because of the past failed relationship? That isn’t true because they ain’t the creator of you and they aren’t aware about one bit of your next minute event not to talk of your tomorrow.

So,dear single lady braze up and begin to live a happy single life until your destined partner showcases.

Moreover,there are things I’ve got to share with you that you should know as a single lady.

• Being a single lady is a time for you to come close to your Creator because Him alone knows your end from your beginning – Isaiah 46:10. In other words,God should be your only foundation because Him alone would make you grow strong as a single  lady to becoming that happy and fulfilling wife and mother without falling whenever the wind calls.
• Being a single lady is also a time to allow God and every positive thing into your life,keeping away from you whatever would keep you worrying off your mind and brain.
• Being a single lady is a time to seek spiritual guide and counsel and you can do this by the following:
• Get to know God’s word through the Holy Book because Gods word is the only means of transport that would drive you safely to your destination in life. The following are Bible scriptures why you should know God’s word – 2 Tim 3:6, Matthew 4:4; Mathew 7:24; Phil 2:14; Psalm 119:9; Proverb 2:6.
• Be prayerful. It is said that a prayer less Christian is a powerless Christian; So i say a prayer less single lady is a powerless single lady. Being prayerful is a very good way to seek spiritual guide and counsel because this is a way you interact with you Creator and He answers and guide you towards this season of single hood.
• Being around brethren that shares same faith with you;that is to say belonging to a Bible believing church. Do not say you do not really need a pastor or anyone to preach to you; you’ve gotten it all wrong because the pastor has more to say to you about the word of God than what you already know,remember we are all learning everyday of our lives. As you be in church,make sure you are in the right place where the Gospel of God is really preached so that you would be guided aright. Take note that in the church you should be convicted of your sin and not be comfortable with it.
• Get a mentor; When I say mentor,I mean a God fearing mentor,you should be able to have a discerning spirit to know if a mentor is a good one for you or not at this season of being a single lady. A mentor could be your mother, father,brother or sister, friend even your pastor and elder in the church. Your mentor could come from anywhere provided his/her mentorship works well with you and is according to the will of God.
• Being a single lady is a time to work on yourself personally; that is to say working on your character because you are your own character. Having good manners in all things because whatever manner you tend to posses,is the same kind of manner you would inculcate into your dear children. If you are a nagging lady,its time to work on it ; if you always get angry at a slightest provocation ,its time you work on it to take it off. If you are fund of gossiping,please your single hood is a good time for you to shun gossip. I bet you,no man would wanna live with a nagging,angry and a gossiping wife;Learn to be sociable too; Learn to be patient too,never you be in haste and find your self satisfying your single hood moment in the arms or bed of a married man. Whether you like it or not that married man isn’t yours but for that lady like you who is his wife. I want you to know that whatever a man sows that he shall also reap.
• Being a single lady is also a time to learn to always win her husband’s heart with her dish that is to say ,be familiar in making good dishes.
• If you wanna get some profitable career for yourself, the single hood moment is a very good time to obtain that certificate/degree for that career; in order words,be skillful.
• Being a single lady is also a time to learn to be dependent financially. What I mean is,get a good source of income. You shouldn’t be the kind of a lady who would wait for a boyfriend to foot her bills or to become a burden to any man. If Mr rights comes around, he should meet you having at least a good source of income no matter how little it is.

Well,dear single sisters, I hope all these would help out to living a happy single life at the moment until Mr right comes knocking at the door. Do not ever be bored being single,be busy working on yourself till you forget you are single .

Cheers!!!